Giving "The Loser" The Recognition He Deserves…


He’s done it again… Who’s he I hear you asking me??? “The Loser” I described in my last entry that’s who. I think he went way overboard today. Had I not read RIA‘s sms bulletin after a friend directed me there, I would not have known that he had sent them to spite me for the world to see. Even though in some messages, no names were mentioned, it was clear, the messages were meant for me. Yeah some of you might argue, I’m being overly sensitive about it and admitting that I was the subject matter but the nicks used were interchangeable yet maintaining the same style of typing and in some of them, the “Sang Pendita” nick was used to mock me. So since this loser wants some recognition for his sms-es, then I’ll give him his dues in this entry.

I’ve copied and pasted five of them in their full, unedited glory. And I’ll answer all of them just to ease or worsen his sick, demented mind.

“SYAH KESIAN ANAK CINA &PM,LAST YEAR PAKAI BAJU MAHAL2 TAPI TAK DIPUJI OLEH ORG &ARTIS, KESIAN KAN :SANG PENDITA”

This was in reference to attending last year’s Anugerah Planet Muzik 2005 event at Suntec City. What did I wear back then??? Just a creased shirt, pants and a matching jacket. Throw in some fancy shades and I looked every bit the part of someone who was dressed appropriately to the event I was attending. Did I wear what I wore to attract attention and to acclaim plaudits??? The thought never crossed my mind. In fact I saw others dressed even more extravagantly than I did. I think with the ticket price that I paid for and sitting amongst people from the industry, I did myself justice by respecting the event. Of course when you pay for a $28 seat and sitting way behind, disrespecting the event by shouting at the top of your voices like hooligans when the winners were giving their speeches, you can afford to just wear polo t-shirts and cargo pants and get away with it. Oh and my top-to-toe outfit didn’t cost more than $100. I wonder how this idiot knew how much I spent overall and came to a conclusion that I paid a bomb…

“SANG PENDITA/SYAH LAST YEAR APM AKU KECEWA KUMPULAN YNG AKU PUJI,YNG AKU SOKONG MENANG 3 AWARD NAIK PENTAS TAK SEBUT PUN NAMA AKU, KESIAN TAU AKU SYAH!”

This next message was in reference to my undying support for BhumiBand. My history with some of the band members go back a long way. I was very proud that they won three awards that night. Did I expect them to mention my name in their thank-you speech??? Not at all cos I know once you’ve won something that you did not expect, 90% of the time you dunno who to thank and your mind will definitely blank out. So what if some people’s names were mentioned??? Did it propel them to popularity heights beyond imagination??? Just because my name wasn’t mentioned doesn’t mean I’m dead and so hard up about it. In fact I was thankful my name wasn’t mentioned as I preferred to support the group quietly behind the scene and let them have the limelight. Supporting them doesn’t mean one has to be so hard up to earn the group’s recognition. If that’s the case, then the word “SINCERITY” goes out of the window. So it makes me wonder if some of these people were supporting BhumiBand out of sincerity or just to gain popularity in name???

“PENGLIPUR LARA/SYAH AKU PILIH WANITA INDON PASAL SEXSY,BODY CUTTING HABIS,MANJA BUKAN MACAM PONTIANAK MLM PAKAI BAJU BERTUDUNG TAPI HOBIT TAK TAU FASHION”

“SUHAIMI/ BUAL KORNER, MACAM MANA NAK TEGUR PASANGAN KITA YNG BERTUDUNG SUPAYA SENANTIASA ANGUN& BERGAYA BUKAN SELEKEH& TAK BERMAYA”

Those two messages proved a few things. Firstly it was sent by the same cuckoo who changed nicks out of convenience. Secondly, it was aimed again at my wife. Thirdly by proclaiming he prefers Indonesian women only proved that my powers of deduction on who was the clown behind the cowardly messages spot-on. Some people, they choose to do things without thinking and in the end, shoot themselves on the foot. This person should start acting his age and stop being so petty and childish. I question his maturity and IQ level when he starts to play dirty and focusing on my wife.

Seeing the way he typed about liking sexy and voluptuous women, it’s no wonder he comes across as lecherous. As a husband, I am responsible for what my wife wears daily for as long as I live. If it is by honouring and upholding Islam and covering up as a Muslimah should do, then so be it, if others think her fashion sense is out-of-date. I’m answerable to God, not him or any of his minions. His comments only reflect on his stupidity and his apparent lack of religious knowledge, which I hope God would mercifully show him the right path. Anyway, I think he’s just jealous that his partner is not half as demure and docile as my wife, which I’m sure most of you who have met my wife would agree with me…

“KITA CARI ORG YG DOK UMA YG KEJA DIA ASIK MENGADAP KOMPUTER, SMS KUTUK ORG,BUAT ONAK, BUAT FITNA, TUKAR2 NAMA NIK MACAM ANAKCINA DAN PM..SUHAIME”

I’m tired of explaining myself and repeating the same old thing like a broken record. My reputation on radio speaks for itself. I don’t have to change nicks like some cowards and hit on others. On radio, I’m known as the quick-fire critic. If I’m always brave enough to comment and criticise others using my nick, I see no reason to change and hit on particular individuals and group using different nicks. These dimwits should stop their finger-pointing when there are others out there who also dislike them. Through the course of their existence, I am sure they’ve made enemies and lost friends along the way, just like anyone of us.

If they think by highlighting and insinuating things about me on air would exhalt them to a higher pedestal in the eyes of neutrals then please, they can take everything. I still remembered one of them used to say he wanted to be as famous as me. Well you don’t get famous just by copying others blindly and being insincere in your approach. There’s also a difference between professional criticism and personal veiled attacks, which clearly some of them failed to grasp. I did not asked to be famous. Why I am who I am is because of my honesty and sincerity, even if my stance can be very endearing to some. Overtime, I know I’ve gained the respect of the majority of people out there for not being a follower. And not being a follower of anyone means I’m not just a yes-man or a cow being pulled by the nose…

Actually, if you were to look at it as a whole, I don’t have to answer to any of their allegations and comments. I’m sure the sms-es were sent to provoke a response from me. I chose to reply so as to clear my name and most importantly, my wife’s. Some of you might think I’m being petty over the whole situation and am just falling into their trap. Maybe, maybe not but where the pride of someone I love is concerned, I can’t take this lying down. Things have gone out of hand where criticising one another is concerned. I feel kinda sad at the mental state of a certain minority in the community. What do they gain??? Personal satisfaction??? Personal glory??? To what extent???

After this if there are anymore attacks, I’ll just turn a deaf ear and a blind eye over them. Let them say what they like. I know my conscience is clear. Likewise the people who know me and my wife know who we are and what we stand for. And that to us matters most, not some smart alecks who try to shoot you down at the slightest available opportunity…



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7 replies

  1. mak tak tau apa lagi nak komen nyah… mak rasa, baik mak rilek one corner.. kalau ada rezeki, kita jumpe di APM macam tahun lepas. hahaha!

    PS: ni entry ada sikit sensitive u.. or should i say.. the SMSes yang sensitive nak mampos.

    ok batman, hope u and isteri semua baik2 sajer.. kongsi fa chai! ang pao plsss!!! saya lom kawin hahhahaha

  2. *sigh*….nak ckp apa lagi bro ? i think dah bnyak word u luah kan here but macam tuang air kat daun keladi jer kan…so ermmm can u please semua orang? of cos tak leh kan…sabar je lah bro, Allah lebih mengetahui akan hamba2nya, biarlah mereke terjun dgn labu labunya..biar kan biar kan…..

    Salam Ma’al hijrah in advance, moga lebih bertaqwa dah penghijrahan perangai lama ke tabiat yang lebih sempurna disisi Allah swt..AMEEN.

  3. PM…
    manyak2 sabar hor..
    e best thing-buat daakk je..nanti dia dah penat dia diam sendiri..=)’

  4. yeah bro..the best thing is to turn deaf ear and blind eye..ignorance is bliss..

  5. yup i agree wif d othrs up here..buat bodo sua dgn dektu..bila dia da pnat dgn secara auto nye he wil kip his bloody mouth shut..neway haff a gr8 wkend ahead ya..njoy!! n salam hijrah 1427H

    p.s:sori for my absence on ur ari perkahwinan..cant attend coz no one to take care of my 4 tenteras..ngoklah if u da der baby lak..i cum n visit u k..heehee

  6. At least that person paid attention to you. You should feel good about it. And if attention itself is good, negative ones make it even better for us to keep ourselves on the ground at least.

    The other better thing about negative attention is, you can blog about it.. which you already did.

  7. Let them be ah PM…Once they tired, they will just keep quiet. They more you try to defence or say back, the more they keep saying…

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