Answering A Query…

I received an sms message from an apparent “fan” of this blog who went by the name of “Rizal” earlier today at where else??? In it he asked me a burning question that’s been bugging his tortured soul to no end. It went like this:


Well to tell you honestly, I’m kinda inclined to say a hefty, unanimous “Yes”!!! However, it’s not fair to some of the others in the group who I’ve not had any such negative dealings, tete-a-tete or verbal joustings. You asked why is it everytime they sent something, I’ll always shoot back??? Why don’t you ask them the same thing too with some of their thinly-veiled messages??? Please do not play the victims card and claim innocence. My sms was not meant for them but to everyone listening. Why is it everytime I say something, they should get all worked up??? If they are so angelic like how they portray themselves to be, then all the more they shouldn’t feel angered by my words.

Just like today, I advised all listeners not to record their phone conversations without the other party’s knowledge as it constitutes to a criminal offence. Is that wrong to share knowledge with everyone??? It so happens that almost everytime I criticise on something, the one who ignited my criticisms belong to one of their group members. Don’t tell me, they’ve not done the same everytime I comment on something via sms or something I’ve said in this blog??? You want me to provide proofs??? Sorry, but I don’t print out the sms bulletin board nor print out my blog and file them in big stacks to support myself at the police station. Whatever criticisms I get, no matter how shamed I got, I don’t go as far as reporting them to the authorities. Cos I regard them as nothing more than words from people who do not know me well enough. At the most I’ll just rant in this blog…

To answer the final question, I’m only anti against those who have been constantly on my back. You know who you are without having me to name names. In life, you should know that there are people who like you and those who dislike you. I don’t go round criticising using other fictitious nicks like some of you. Neither do I go round questioning why people hate me cos it shows I’m only having an inferiority complex. If people dislike me for who I am and what I stand for, then I respect that. I don’t force people to like nor love me. If you can comment about me and others, then you should expect others to do likewise, not go round crying wolf, feigning innocence and acting like big babies…

Author: Pujangga Malam™

Well-known on RIA 89.7FM as a controversial and sensational critic able to invoke thought-provoking and sometimes, fiery responses from fellow listeners. Have since evolved into a distinguished blogger of reputable claim with takes on the Malay entertainment industry and football-related matters. Brutally honest and believes in only reporting the truth as I see, hear or experience it. Self-styled critic who does not mince his words and is definitely a non-conformist.

10 thoughts on “Answering A Query…”

  1. ingatkan apa la.. lagu aper niee… mcm zaman 80s jer..sorry i onli listen to reggaeton. hahaha! *CUCUK LOBANG IDUNG. saper rizal.. hensem tak? kalau hensem, kirim salam ok..

  2. Hi PM,
    I’m a regular listener of Ria Jamm and I stumbled upon ur blog site (while bloghopping) about 3 months ago or so.
    I wld, 1st of all, like to declare that I’m not part of Merbuk Platoon, Tiong Famili, Hepi Famili or yg sewaktu dgn nye… 🙂
    To be frank, I had the same impression as ur fan “Rizal”.
    As hard as u’v tried to explain that all the remarks r general ones, they do seem > like sarcastic remarks targeting “them”. This could b just a coincidence, tak disengajakan tapi mayb it’s the way u sounded/written.
    Anyway, this is just an honest feedback. u can choose to ignore this. Please don’t be offended (I’m sorry if it does offend u)…

  3. Thx for your feedback Linda. Nope, I’m not offended as I believe anyone should be given the right to voice themselves out, positively or negatively. We’re living in a country that practices free speech anyway. I love constructive feedbacks so yours was one that I welcomed with open arms…

    My words can be classified as double-edged. I think it’s an open secret of my apparent hatred for some of their group members (from past shenanigans we’ve had). As much as people would think I am hitting out at them, my aim is also to remind others not to fall into the same trap or do things that might look silly on them.

    At times I’ve also picked on the flaws of other listeners. But nobody kicked up a fuss except when I focus my attention on “them”. You know Linda, the disadvantage of being in a group is that, the actions of certain individuals affect the group’s reputation. That’s the reason why the group split last year following the Karnival Muzik fiasco at Fort Canning Park in August.

    I had justifiable grounds to pick on their flaws, in previous entries that you read, cos I saw it with my own eyes the things they did that earned my rebuke. If you asked me if I’m being jealous of their popularity and the perks they get by helping out at outdoor shows etc, I’ve been there, done that many times in the past. I’ve had my time and have moved on…

    The entertainment industry is a harsh one and I learnt the hard way that no matter how much we wanna enjoy ourselves and help out sincerely, we will never be appreciated enough, yet even be chastised.

    I’m not embarking on a personal vendetta against “them”. But certain things I deem as unethical from my observations will definitely get my attention. That’s not to say I am such a cultured person. I have my flaws too. But if I can share it with everyone so as not to repeat it again, I would. Cos I’m sick of hearing negative remarks about our race and religion.

    I can explain and debate till the cows come home. I leave it to those who hear my comments to evaluate to the best of their abilities and mentalities. To those who know of my apparent hatred, they’d think I’m targetting them. To those who know me for always standing up for righteousness and correcting mistakes and flaws as they come, they’ll know that I am just another voice that wants to see the betterment of the community…

  4. I forgot to add. My “hatred” is only limited to pointing out flaws either via sms or this blog. I don’t go as far as seeing them in public and confronting them and hurling vulgarities for the things they’ve said about me and especially about my wife, though I wished I could do those things. But for what and what are the repercussions I’ll get by doing those things??? I’m more sensible than that…

    One last thing, I’ll definitely mention if I’m really targeting anyone, especially if I were to quote from the sms bulletin… If I don’t mention any names, then do treat it as a general comment. So I hope that answers your query…

  5. Meh, join kita makan oreos lagi bagus, bro.

    Let’s have mushroom swiss together-gether sometime. Of course, that includes sis aida too.


  6. Thanks for accepting the feedback openly… 🙂

    I agree with u on being part of any group…kerana nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga.

    Anyway, it’s the path they choose. So, biarkan si luncai terjun dgn labu2 nye….biarkannnnnn….

    Have a great weekend!

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