Adding 3 & 0 To My Life…

2008 has been quite a happening year, mostly of sweet memories and achievements. And as I look back at what happened during the year, I could say I have been very much satisfied with what I have in my hands right now. Top of the list was the birth of my second daughter Syadiyah Asyura, followed by moving into our new home which is a 5-minutes walking distance to Sengkang MRT station and Compass Point. I don’t think I need to list down every single thing that I have achieved and gained for the past year as I do not want to come across as being a bloody show off. I’m just thankful to Almighty Allah for all the blessings that he has showered upon me and family.

However, since the beginning of the year, I cannot help but think about Death whenever I’m alone and thinking of all the wrongs I’ve done for the past 29 years of my life. Death brings with it eternal goodbyes with you and your loved ones. Death also brings with it the pain of piercings from 300 swords all at once. I look back and think that 30 years have passed by quite fast and that each single second is a step closer to my grave. Every day I will look at the obituaries and see that people pass on in their late 50s and in their 60s. If 60 is the average age of a human being, then as of today, I’m halfway there. Ustaz Noor Tijany once said a human being should be thankful if he can reach 55 years and from then on, he / she has to prepare for life in the Hereafter.

A new year, both in terms of our Gregorian and Hijrah calendars, a new chapter, and I intend to make full use of this blessing to be an even better person, a better husband, a better son, a better father, a better friend, a better brother, a better nephew, a better uncle, a better colleague, not to mention a better servant to HIM than before. God works wonders and I am thankful HE has awoken me from my slumber and showed my failings and shortcomings through instances and events happening to and around me. I have too many flaws, bad habits and vices which most people do not know about and I intend to put it straight, or at least improve on them.

Thank you Allah for adding another year into my life. Thank you for blessing me with a beautiful family, for showering me with all the sustenance and good health, for all the good and the bad that you have given for me to learn and improve in life, to be thankful, to always remember that without YOU, none of these could ever happened.

Today too marks the 3rd year of my wedding anniversary. It should have been my 5th year wedding anniversary had the recession in 2001 not spoilt my plans on settling down when I was 25. But at least I am contented and blessed that I am married to my best friend and my soul mate, someone who knows me inside out even when I sometimes hide things and disguise my thoughts from her. Giving birth to my second daughter has made me loved her even more, even if I always tend to bully her with my jokes and quirky sense of humour. Thank you for being the queen of my heart, other than my mum, my love. May this union go on and on for decades to come. I love you with all my heart…

The past two years, I’ve always loved to upload the video of my wedding dinner entrance and I think it’s kinda stale already. For those of you who haven’t seen it, you can click here to view it. This year, I’m uploading the other song I sang at my wedding dinner, Innuendo‘s “Selamanya“. So I hope you guys would enjoy it, even if my voice resembles a frog croaking. Here’s wishing all of you a good 2009 ahead and may whatever you have planned for the coming year will come to fruition, God willing…

Didicazli’s Diari Cinta Album Launch…


I’m not in the mood to type a lengthy review nor entry this time as I’m feeling under the weather. As such, I’ll just let the few photographs I took do the talking. This album launch was held earlier today at the Darul Ma’wa Children’s Home and was the secondary event to the annual Ma’wa Idol competition being held at the venue. Finally, the long-awaited album is launched. Congratulations to Didicazli on the birth of his full album. Just in time to be included for consideration at, since the closing date of submission is this Wednesday, 31st December 2008






A shot of the people in attendance. The front row included Member of Parliament for Aljunied GRC, Mr Zainul Abideen Rashid, Fiza O of RIA 89.7FM, and Didicazli‘s parents amongst others…


There was also a games segment whilst awaiting for the results of the Ma’wa Idol to be announced. Contestants were supposed to enact a scene from a Bollywood movie and dance to the Hindi song being played in the background. The female contestants have to don on a sari while the male contestants had to wear a George Bush mask and sunglasses. Here, my good friend Latiff a.k.a. The Rock (cos he looks a bit like the famous wrestler) a.k.a. Penyu (cos he resembles one as well :P) shows you how he looked like when he donned on the mask and sunglasses.


That’s him unmasked…

And for laughs, here’s what he and all the others had to do during their segment. Enjoy!!!

End of a Dominance…


I know I have been away too long for your liking. After two recent lengthy entries, I had to have a much needed reprieve, considering the fact that some people come in and read my long postings in batches. At least, they would have some time to digest them in before I come out with another one. Anyway since I had spent quite a considerable time on my previous entries, I had to have some quality time in return with my little darlings while I’ve been away. With regards to the last entry, well, let’s just say the cat’s in the bag.

This past Sunday 21 December 2008, I went to the National Stadium to witness the capitulation of our national team and how we ended four years of regional domination on a whimper. Last time I told myself not to step foot on the hallowed grounds again simply because it was eighteen months ago that we bade the grand old dame goodbye with a friendly against Australia and then we had a mini fireworks display to top it off, so final goodbyes should have really meant final goodbyes. Since then, there had been quite a number of matches involving the national team and even when the team played Ronaldinho and company this past July, I took the time off from my reservist and headed straight to the stadium to see the Samba Boys live in the flesh.


We are about to bid 2008 a fond farewell in a few days’ time. The new Sports Hub is very much due in 2011 if I’m not mistaken. If the grand old dame isn’t torn down soon, how are they to meet the expected dateline of completion??? Word has it that the group behind the construction are having difficulties in financing the building of the new arena. If that’s the case then somehow I felt so dumb at attending the closing ceremony of the National Stadium back in June 2007, even though it was for awhile and I had crossed over to the Indoor Stadium to watch Christina Aguilera in action that same night. I wonder who else who attended that day would have felt dumb as well.

Anyway, back to Sunday‘s game. Somehow I had told myself that if there was an opportunity to watch the Lions in action in the semi-finals and probably the final if we were to make it that far, of the Asian Football Federation‘s Suzuki Cup as it is now known as, I would jump at the chance. Honestly I thought the change in name was quite heaven sent cos I simply abhor the name “Tiger Cup” for obvious reasons. Seeing how disciplined the team was when they beat Indonesia 2-0 a fortnight ago, I was heartened to see that we probably had a decent chance of making it to the finals again this time around. So the decision to watch the semi-final game, at the expense of missing out watching Manchester United‘s own final game at the World Club Cup Championship in Japan against Liga De Quito on television, was made there and then.


Initially I had plans to attend the match with my football buddies, but they were more keen on resting and watching it from the comfort of their homes. Then my colleague Azhar and wife Farhana asked if Aida and I would be interested to go together. Since no other guy friends wanted to go with me, and to keep Farhana company, I asked Aida along as well. It’s not that I don’t want to bring my wife along in the first place. She’s not really a football fan and she somehow hates the atmosphere whereby the fans are very much full of verbal insults, not to mention the excessive smoking, even if there are signs to remind the people at the stadium not to smoke. Some kind of educated people we are huh???

Sunday came and I got a call around noon by Azhar to say he was not going as Farhana was feeling unwell. And so I told Aida she need not have to go and instead I would go with my cousin Yousoff. As usual, I played football in the evening with my football buddies but I twisted my ankle in the process and suddenly didn’t have the mood to go, thinking I have to walk up a considerable number of steps at the stadium. But I had told our very own Baihakki Khaizan and wife Norfasarie that I would be going when I bumped into them at Compass Point whilst shopping for my new phone the Friday before last, plus I missed watching games at the stadium. So after a quick massage I was all ready to go. But Yousoff stood me up in the end, so I ended up going alone.


I reached the stadium about 7:55pm no thanks to a traffic jam that held me up along the way just after the Sims Avenue exit of the KPE. Then there was the challenge of finding a parking space. Luckily there was one at the newly refurbished Kallang Leisure Drome. Since I had an extra ticket with me, I looked out for people who had not bought theirs. I managed to sell it off to a guy at a reduced price of $5. Normally when I watch games at the stadium, I would have complimentary tickets thanks to my uncle, the legendary great Dollah Kassim. He wasn’t in town last weekend so I had to buy tickets on my own. I found a seat over at the north-east section of the stadium just next to the tier where the Vietnamese fans were seated. Oh and I met my friend Haikal from the Manchester United SG supporters group along with two of his friends, so I sat directly behind them.

The Lions were dominating proceedings from the time I started watching the game at about 8:25pm, yes I wasted about 25 minutes or so just walking towards the stadium and finding someone to buy my extra ticket. It was frustrating to watch all the chances being put to waste, denied by the opposing goalkeeper or blocked by the Vietnamese defenders. In the end, we were sucker punched by a counter attack. Up till then, I thought our defence had held their own remarkably well and throughout the tournament, especially when we have such a confident shot stopper in Lionel Lewis manning the fort.


So far, I had been impressed by the performances of Noh Rahman, Baihakki and Daniel Bennett in defence. I’m not impressed with Precious for being leadfooted and not preventing the Vietnamese substitute with a tackle that could have perhaps saved our asses. Ismail Yunos was another one I was not impressed with. Being the freshest player in our team having come on for Noh Rahman, he was supposed to match pace with pace, but he was outrunned by the Vietnamese left-winger who squared the ball for their substitute to score.

Another I was not impressed with was our Golden Monkey (thanks to the colour of his hair). An article in The Sunday Times last Sunday stated that in his Facebook status prior to the game, he said that he could not wait to thrash Vietnam. If there was something that he had not learnt from his 9 month ban for hitting his own national teammate, that is having humility and respect for his opponent. In the process, he put himself in unnecessary pressure to score and ended up with egg on his face. It’s one thing to be brimming with confidence but there is also a question mark on having no respect for your opponent.


The fans too were disappointing and should have learnt a thing or two from the Vietnamese fans. Throughout the match they were in full force, cheering, singing and chanting their support for their own team. What did our own fans have to offer??? Nothing except the 9-beat sound from the airhorn followed by the “B” word that rhymes with what the Indonesians refer to when they are in need of something. To think we have so many national community songs being composed for the past twenty odd years, I wonder why we can’t even sing simple tunes like “We Are Singapore” or “Count On Me Singapore” and just sing them during annual National Day parades. Even singing the national anthem would fire up national pride.

To top it off, we had a lot of ungracious and unsporting attitudes being displayed. I saw quite a few Caucasians sitting around me grinning sheepishly whenever the fans broke into the standard verbal tirade. And from where I sat, I could see throughout the match, especially in the second half, how rowdy our fans were when they got themselves into petty spats and scuffles with the opposing fans. News reports today indicated that fights broke out after the game and even the Vietnamese flag was burnt. I had left the stadium the minute the fourth official had lifted the electronic board to indicate four minutes of injury time, knowing from what I had watched so far, it was a lost cause and that I had to leave fast before I get myself involved in another traffic pile up.


That arrow shows exactly where I was that night. Photo courtesy of Hairi @ Bob from my Multiply network.

We might be known as the most clinical, most efficient, most clean, most educated people in the region, but graciousness, courtesy and sportsmanship are definitely not traits that are endearing to us. No wonder we had to have campaigns and constant reminders by our leaders. But all these seem to have fell on deaf ears. We are indeed still a long way from being a cultured society.

Cicakman 2: Planet Hitam Gala Premiere in Singapore…


It’s been quite a happening one week, with a few events occurring to my interest, which deserve mentioning and highlighting. At least this blog is able to be updated and not meant to be a white elephant. I was still tired from my cruise trip which ended last Friday, and I had just started on my previous blog entry on the trip. Naturally, I hate to stop halfway once I’ve started on something. However, a newspaper article in last Friday‘s Berita Harian perked me up when I read that Yusry Abdul Halim of KRU fame would be in town to promote his new film “Cicakman 2: Planet Hitam“. He was not to be alone and would be joined by the gorgeous and my favourite deejay from across the Causeway, none other than Radio ERA‘s Linda Onn.


Riz Sunawan waiting for the artistes to arrive…

I looked at the schedule and saw that they were slated to make an appearance at The Cathay @ Downtown East between 1-3pm on Saturday 6th December 2008 and The Cathay @ Causeway Point between 2-4pm on Sunday 7th December 2008. As my Sunday afternoons are normally spent on playing football with my neighbourhood gang, the thought of rushing from Woodlands and back to Sengkang was not one that I looked forward to. The distance is also further compared to Sengkang and Pasir Ris and I wouldn’t want to waste my fuel for nothing. Since the movie was also being shown at 3:15pm at Downtown East and not at Causeway Point, it was decided that Saturday was the day to go. Also since both my nephew Muhammad and niece Nurin loved the first edition of the said movie, I thought it would be great if they tagged along as well.


But first things first. I had to confirm whether the one being shown at Downtown East was the full movie and not a sneak preview. Cos I did not want to be shortchanged watching a sneak preview with a few scenes deleted. That’s why they call it a “sneak preview” for those of you who dunno this. So I messaged the two “ibu pengantins“, Jihan & Janna, and asked if it’s a full movie or a sneak preview. Jihan replied and said it’s the full movie AND it’s the gala premiere so I should come. And came I did. I wasn’t keen on coming so early as past similar events had shown that the artistes’ normally don’t make their appearance right on the dot. Syahindah wasn’t back yet from Kuala Lumpur with my family and Syadiyah is too young to appreciate watching a movie, so it was just us, the kids and their mum, Kak Rashida. We left home at about 1:40pm.


When I reached the cinema lobby at Downtown East, I was surprised to see that there was not much of a crowd milling around the area where Yusry and Linda Onn were slated to make an appearance. Initially I thought the event was over, but then I saw Jihan and Janna, and they said that both Yusry and Linda will be coming out anytime soon. So it was definitely a good decision on my part to have left home slightly later. From a distance I could see the Mediacorp Malay Newsroom team led by Riz Sunawan, setting up their equipment, to interview the two artistes when they finally appear. I think it was about 2:20pm that Yusry, Linda Onn and the KRU Music Group chief himself, Norman Abdul Halim, finally came out from their waiting area.


This is not Saiful Apek

A bit funny really that when they appeared, no announcements were made. This was because when they appeared, they headed straight to the area where the Mediacorp Malay Newsroom team had set up their equipment to do their interviews, which was aired that same night during the 8pm news. Walking towards the area, they had to walk past us and all three beamed at us, especially the two brothers which regular readers of this blog would note by now of my affiliation and loyalty towards KRU since they came into the music scene. Somehow there is always an emptiness when the joker of the pack, Edry, is not around, cos his two elder brothers are quite serious people on the surface.


Yusry being interviewed by Riz Sunawan

Whilst Yusry was the first to be interviewed by Riz Sunawan, Norman came over to me, thanked me for supporting the event and asked how were things in life. He was surprised I did not bring Syahindah along but understood when I told him that the little one was enjoying herself in Kuala Lumpur. He was quite pleased to know that I had brought my nephew and niece along since I told him they are great fans of the first film. Whilst his attention was then diverted by his assistant AC, I took the time to walk over to Linda and asked if she remembered yours truly.


When I brought up meeting her at Nadia Mustafar‘s wedding last year, she instinctively remembered and said we also met during Umrah in 2006 and that I had gone to her family’s chicken rice shop in Ampang. Her memory’s simply amazing, and to think she has met thousands of people since the last time we saw her. The freshness of her memory was very much evident, without having to remind nor prompt her further. The wife and I were extremely chuffed to meet her again, cos this gal simply has no airs about her, even if she is being portrayed as some sort like an ice queen. She then had to excuse herself as it was her turn to be interviewed by Riz.


Surprising the “mak pengantin“, Janna

Seeing a beeline being formed at the signature booth, Aida told me to join in the queue as it was getting quite long for our liking. And so we queued and waited for the cue for them to start the autograph signing session. Next to the signature booth, a table was set up to sell the Cicakman merchandise like the comics, colouring books, colour pencils as well as the pencil cases. Oh they were also selling the Cicakman 2 official soundtrack album as well. We called out to my niece and nephew and they showed us which of the merchandise they wanted and we bought for them the colouring books. Seeing the Cicakman 2 soundtrack album having many new singles being released by artistes under the KRU Music Group label, I was swayed into buying it as the merchandise meant for the children are not exactly my cup of tea. I thought it would be worth it and something to remember me by of this gala premiere. It was an honour to know that I was the first amongst the people in the queue to have bought the soundtrack album, thanks to AC, who had by then taken over the microphone to promote the event and merchandise on sale.


Linda Onn being interviewed by Riz Sunawan

The KRU brothers started the ball rolling by signing autographs on the Cicakman 2 posters that were being given away free to those who had bought tickets to the gala premiere or the merchandise on sale. Once she had finished her interview, Linda joined in the autograph signing session. We took the opportunity to take photos with all of them and once we had finished, we were given three copies of the Cicakman 2 poster by Kak Latifah, who was one of the crew members helping out at the event. It was then I realised that Suria had clinched the deal to be the official TV station of the movie here in Singapore when I saw Alex, one of the familiar faces of Suria‘s Artiste Management Unit.


The Anugerah alumnus and yours truly…

Subsequently I was alerted to the presence of a few Suria artistes namely Fauzie Laily, Hyrul Anuar and Roslan Mohd. From afar, Hyrul and Fauzie were seen grinning and waving at me and I went up to them to ask how they were. And of course, it will not be complete without a photo taken together. Aida and the kids also took the opportunity to take a photograph with Norfasarie who looked extremely radiant and fresh, even in her current condition. The kids are big fans of her’s and they have never missed watching “2 X 5 Dol“, of which she is one of the two main protagonists of the series. My old friend, Fadhilah of Erlin Montel and FYI fame, was also there to cover for her weekly lifestyle programme.


Always a pleasure meeting this old friend of mine…

The show which was originally supposed to start at 3:15pm ended up being shown at 3:30pm. A gala premiere is not complete without the movie’s producer, director and actors giving a brief speech on what to expect about the movie. Apparently Norman gave an idea that Cicakman is meant to be a trilogy and that the movie is filled with a lot of cameo appearances by famous personalities in the Malaysian entertainment industry. Handing the microphone over to Yusry, the latter said that the movie this time would have less elements of comedy and more action as compared to the first movie, so as to give a more credible substance to a super hero movie. By the time Linda spoke about her role in the movie and teased being a baddie, I was all pumped up to watch this sequel.


The kids simply adore Norfa

The movie as a whole I would rate it 4 out of 5 stars. Personally I feel that this movie is much better than the first. The CGI effects have been increased and made to look more realistic and this time the weather effects were much better sans winter. Even though it’s supposed to be make believe, I still have not warmed to the idea of a Malay country having the four seasons. Other than that, the cameos by the different people make you wonder which celebrity is next to be featured. We were pleasantly surprised to see Aida‘s cousin, Nadia Mustafar, appearing in the supermarket scene. Speaking of that scene, I find it mind boggling that Danny (portrayed by Yusry) suddenly came back to life and acted as one of the extras in the background. Blink and you’ll miss him.


If there are any flaws to the movie, it is probably due to the overacting of certain characters like Tamara Bleszynski‘s “Rrama” and Aznil Nawawi‘s “Professor Klon“. Perhaps it was very much intended by the director, as the latter’s character is meant to be a psycopath who is a little insane in the membrane. Tamara‘s cackling gave me goosebumps as her character became more like a Pontianak than a baddie hell bent on killing Cicakman himself.


Another flaw of note perhaps come from the similarities to Spiderman and Batman which we have seen lately on our movie screens. “Rrama‘s” costume reminded me of a female Batman and her weapons as well as gadgets of choice resembled the Batarangs and others associated to Batman. Cicakman‘s reminded me of Spiderman, especially now that his costume is even redder than the last movie. Even his mode of movement reminded me of Spiderman, in that he uses his tongue, rather than a websling to move from building to building. I think we’ve seen this already in the first movie.


Me and the KRU brothers…

But the storyline in itself was a joy to watch. It was compact, fast-paced and at times delved with the emotions. And what is a super hero movie without twisting plots and surprises along the way??? Help for Cicakman came from quite an unexpected form. You need to watch the movie to know what I’m talking about. Again this part reminded me of Spiderman 3 whereby the New Green Goblin came to Spiderman‘s rescue towards the end. That’s a big hint for you people out there to know which baddie suddenly became good in the end. The finale was a clear indication as to who would possibly be the baddie that Cicakman has to face in the next instalment.


Us and Linda Onn

As for the soundtrack, there are ten songs in them, all from artistes under the KRU Music Group label. It is a good strategy to release new singles in an album like this. New acts like Pianka, Boy and Flava are given the opportunity to introduce themselves to the masses. The only ironical part is the fact that Pianka, a girl group, has a song entitled “Mau Yang Besar” (I Want It Big). Edry, the composer of the song, certainly likes to push the controversial limits accorded to him. But of course there is nothing pornographic about the song nor does it have any sexual innuendos. It’s a feel good song actually with the girls wanting materialistic stuff. Hopefully it gets played on our local airwaves.


Another special feature in the soundtrack album I also noticed is the fact that all three members of KRU have a song of their own – Edry with “Sumpah Takkan Cari Yang Lain“, Yusry & Melly Goeslaw with “Dibius Cinta” and Norman performing “Planet Hitam“. Even though the main track “Planet Hitam“, which is my personal favourite, is noted as being performed by Tyco, it’s actually just Norman himself performing it in his element. The song is energetic, pumps the adrenaline and most definitely reminded me of the good old days whereby KRU was the kingpin of Malaysian rap.


Nice to see Tyco being resurrected after eight long years. For those of you who dunno, Tyco is the cartoon version of KRU. My wedding dinner introduction, the one I came in with a bang, was a song by Tyco entitled “With You“. You can check out YouTube for that clip, both the original and my own wedding dinner performance. To end this entry, here’s the video clip of “Planet Hitam“, which is currently being shown on Suria at selected times. For the record, the movie is being launched concurrently in Malaysia, Singapore and Brunei today and is the reason why I’m pubilshing this entry to coincide with its launch. You should watch this movie!!!

Video courtesy of “krustudios

Onboard RIA Anniversary Cruise…


Apologies for this purposedly delayed entry, if you consider publishing this extremely long entry some seventy-two hours later from returning as “late“. I was having a massive headache when I got home last Friday due to lack of sleep and getting up on the wrong side of bed on the last day of the event, that by the time I reached home, the first thing I wanted to do was catch up on lost sleep “suffered” during the trip. As always, when there is such an event as long as this (this is definitely by far the longest!!!) and when I’m there to witness it firsthand and tell it as how I see, hear or experience it, it is jolly well gonna be a massive entry for your reading pleasure. I’m updating this as slowly as I could and taking my own sweet time. So again I apologise if you people out there have been waiting for my update on this trip, which was from 3rd to 5th December 2008. Oh and I need to add on, it is the longest entry to date that I’ve done so far in my history of blogging. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!!!


The main lobby on the 7th floor…

I’ve been an avid listener of RIA 89.7FM right from its inception on 1st December 1990 at exactly 5pm. I still remember listening to it for the first time about a month short of my 12th birthday whilst sitting in my father’s car, trapped along the Causeway due to the traffic jam heading towards Johor Bahru. We were making our way there to watch the 2nd leg of Singapore‘s Malaysia Cup semi-final match against Johor. It was the heady days of Alistair Edwards and Abbas Saad and we duly won 4-1 that night. Anyway back to my story and I have to apologise if I were to sidetrack a bit and relate my past experiences with the radio station before I describe what happened during the trip.


One of the karaoke rooms…

I’ve grown up listening to the station, seen its evolution over the years and many changes to those on its payroll as deejays come and go every few years with the exception of Hafeez Glamour who has been onboard right from the very start. I grew up with it from the time I was in primary school to my current standing as a father of two. It is also ironical that my firstborn shares the same birthday as the radio station as well, such is my apparent “loyalty”, as mentioned by former programme director of the station, bro A.B. Shaik, when I first broke the news to him on the birth of Syahindah Adawiyah.


One of the highlights of my internship 🙂

Over the past eighteen years being a listener, I’ve had good memories being a part of their events and for a good period of three and a half months in 1998, being a part of the staff as an intern doing my polytechnic attachment programme, which till now still remains one of my best memories in life and for the fact that I was perhaps the first to do my internship without a Mass Communications background, as noted by former RIA deejay Morniyati Tukimin back then, who is now at Warna 94.2FM. Another memorable event was of course “kRIAtif 97” whereby my best friend Nizam, cousin Ezaad and myself impersonated KRU and won the Impersonation Category, performing on the same stage along with a certain up and coming Datin Sri. Circa 1998-2001, I was also a volunteer at their outdoor events, my way and form of gratitude in having me onboard as an intern.


kRIAtif 97… An unforgettable event…


Being invited to perform at Boom RIA Boom in 1998.

But in any relationship out there, there are bound to be differences in opinions and clash of personalities over the course of time. I’ve had several run-ins and misunderstandings with some of them before in the past and I’m sure certain events I’ve reviewed like Anugerah Planet Muzik for instance, would have ruffled some feathers within their hierarchy. However, I’m not the kind to prolong whatever differences I have. Like I had mentioned in my entry on “Being Impartial” recently, I let go what is trapped inside and I move on and not dwell over it. Anyway, criticisms do not constitute with having hatred and angst inside, nor does it decay to the point that we’re no longer on talking terms. There could possibly be future run-ins and misunderstandings in store, touch wood, you’ll never know, but such is life in that it would not have that wee bit of pizzazz if we were to agree on the same things all the time. I believe whatever differences we might have in terms of opinions and how things should be run in the past were because we all care for the station and want to see it thrive even more.


Entertainment by the pub…

As a listener, we can complain and rant objectively and not based on emotions, but we also have the power to suggest what could be done to make things better and it’s up to them to weigh them up and implement them. I’ve had a few suggestions taken on board and implemented which shows, they do take our suggestions quite seriously, where policies and working guidelines are not compromised. At the end of the day, no matter what differences we have in terms of personalities and opinions, I still respect them for what they do for a living. It helped that my internship a decade ago made me understand how they work trying to please the masses on a daily basis. And it is definitely not all glitz and glamour as seen by most people out there.


The Gallery – Where they placed our photographs taken just before we boarded the ship…

In Malay speak, you would say my foreword would be “Panjangnya mukadimah dia, bila nak start cerita pasal trip!!!???” Ok I shall not bore you any further then with anecdotes of my colourful past and just get on with talking about the cruise trip. My thesis is just about to get longer as I spin my yarn so please bear with my long-windedness.


The cinema room… Looks more like an AVA room found in schools…


The idea of having the cruise trip was first mentioned sometime in September when the station ran its “Lagu Apa Sayang???” promotions where listeners would call in and guessed the title of a particular song which contained the word “Sayang“, and they have to guess just by listening to a one to two seconds clip of the song. At first, I was not that interested to go on the trip, but when they eventually said that “Misteri Jam 12“, a hot favourite programme amongst the listeners and mine as well, was part of the agenda of the trip, I secretly yearned to be onboard to experience the live atmosphere.


As I had mentioned before, I used to be a part of (Singapore’s First Online Ghost Stories) and it’s been quite awhile since I’ve gone on adventure trips to experience being in the same environment as the supernatural. This “Misteri Jam 12” experience on the ship would have more or less rekindled the days of yore, even if it’s just relating ghostly experiences onboard. Well it was an open secret as I had cajoled the wife to come along and take a break from her gruelling work schedule. The moment they added meeting artistes under the Suria Records (SRC) and Siti Nurhaliza Productions (SNP) umbrellas in the activity list when we reached Port Klang, that clinched it for me.


The helipad on Deck 13…

You might be wondering why I was so interested with the latter event when my interest has always been just Datin Sri (forgive me for using this term cos I think it’s even higher than just a Dato’ since her hubby has been promoted to Dato’ Sri) and Liza Hanim when both used to be under SRC. Prior to my marriage in 2005, I’ve actively helped out at events involving SRC artistes and made friends with some of them and the people working behind the scenes as well. Knowing full well that the very same people working behind the scenes would definitely be at the event, it was like killing a few birds with one stone. I don’t go up to Kuala Lumpur that often and even if I do, my schedule is so tight that I do not have the time to catch up with the friends I’ve made over the years.


The basketball court reminds me of the steel cage used in wrestling…

This was the perfect opportunity to meet some of my old friends again, especially Saerah (Datin Sri‘s younger sister) and her cousin Aju, whom I was tasked to help chaperone around town when they were here for Malam Amal Suria in 2002. Saerah, for those of you who do not know, is now an up and coming artiste who would be releasing her debut album next year. The last Aida and I met them was back in November 2004 when they were here for a short performance at IMM, in conjunction with Manja magazine’s event, a promotional show to find new faces to grace our local entertainment industry, if my memory serves me well. They had wanted to come to our wedding but could not make it due to other prior commitments. So yes, four years is a long time and our only modes of communication so far has been through the occasional sms and Friendster, which personally I feel is quite passe with the increasing addictive level associated with Facebook.


We would have loved to let Syahindah enjoy the facilities meant for kids here…

Still the challenge of getting the wife to take a break proved to be quite a daunting one. Her punishing work schedule requires her to return home close to or around midnight, jumping from project to project, having to meet datelines and answer every whims by her company’s clients. It was only after I had personally talk to her manager when I sent her home, after I had picked both of them up from the office, that she said it was ok for the wife to have a short break and re-energise, even though they are currently in the midst of a project. I thought the wife deserved it as she has been with the manager and the latter should know how committed and dedicated the former is at work, staying late at the expense of quality time with family.


A giant chess set… Wished the wife could play the game as well…

And so we only confirmed our trip about ten days before we were due to depart. The original plan was to bring Syahindah along and not bring Syadiyah, bearing in mind we were to have “Misteri Jam 12” onboard and it would not be suitable for her. In fact, we were also in two minds whether to bring Syahindah along since she is afraid whenever she listens to the “Misteri Jam 12” trailers, saying “Akut dobash…” (that’s “Takut Dua Belas” in infant speak) and running out of the room. But we still decided to go along with it since it would be nice to celebrate her recent birthday together onboard.


The arcade was closed when we came in to see…

Since we were late confirmers and the cheaper rates have all been taken up, we got ourselves the most expensive deck on the 10th floor. But I was quite appalled to know on the day of registering for the trip that Syahindah who would have already turned two by the time we depart, had to pay the same rates as an adult. If you think this was an idiotic policy on the part of E-Ventions International & Travel, the co-organisers of this trip, to squeeze every dollar from us, it was not. It was apparently the part of Star Cruises Pte Ltd, the main body in charge of the Superstar Virgo which we were supposed to board. The question that played in my head was “How much can my daughter do and eat onboard???“, even when we paid so much for someone as young as her.


The deck gallery at Deck 7…

Another thing that I was quite pissed off about was when I received the programme schedule. It stated that we were supposed to go on a three days two nights trip. But the schedule showed that we were to report at HarbourFront at 7:30pm and the cruise ship would only depart at midnight. What three days was this??? It felt more like a two days two nights affair!!! I felt extremely shortchanged by Star Cruises‘ policies. This is daylight robbery to the core and they really should do something about it and increase the age limit of infants to at least 7 years or 12 for that matter and state clearly their schedule. I had that sinking feeling so to speak after I made my payment. I was angry at Star Cruises and not at E-Ventions nor the people at RIA 89.7FM as I believe the latter two had no choice themselves but to comply with the former.


The corridor leading to our room…

But miracle of miracles came along later on on the same day, when my mum called me up and said that my family were planning for a trip themselves to Kuala Lumpur on 4th December 2008 and it would be nice to bring along Syahindah to keep both my sisters and the maid company. After a short discussion with wifey, we decided the best was to let Syahindah follow my family and get our money’s worth back. We’re not gonna let Star Cruises have their way. So that’s a crotch chop aimed at them. If you dunno what a crotch chop is, go to YouTube and search for “D-Generation X“. You’ll find your answer there.


Our room had no windows and we had to sleep separately…

If not for the fact that this was our virgin trip onboard a cruise ship, I wouldn’t have gone at all. Life is all about experiences and we had for some time wanted to try this out and such an opportunity should not be passed on, especially when you know you’re gonna have lots of fun and activities. Which was why we still went ahead even though we already felt the bitter taste in our mouths even before we embarked.


Our room number…

3rd December 2008

And so it ended up like a third honeymoon for us (the first was our Umrah in 2006, the second being Aida‘s cousin, Malaysian actress Nadia Mustafar‘s wedding in 2007). I thought my anger with Star Cruises would subside by the time we embarked on our trip but a call made at 3pm by one of the E-Ventions‘ staff only served to increase it. She said the ship had not returned and there would be a delay. Instead of 7:30pm, the meeting time then was set at 9pm. There was a good omen about that in that we did not have to rush through Maghrib but the bad point was it only made us felt shortchanged by the timing stated on our schedule.


All set for the trip…

We left home at 8:15pm and took the train down to HarbourFront. It helps that staying across the road from Sengkang MRT Station means we save on exorbitant taxi fares, just to cater to our luggage bag. We reached HarbourFront at about 9pm and whilst I dashed upstairs to the ATM machine to withdraw cash, Aida waited just outside the Cheers convenience store. When I returned, she was being kept company by cousin Ezaad (he of the recent Kallang Roar The Movie fame) and wife Julie who had come to see us off. It was their 3rd year wedding anniversary that day so they were out on a date sans their son, Eshaan. When we reached just outside the Arrival area of the HarbourFront Cruise Centre and after taking photographs, we said our goodbyes and made our way to the reporting area, which used to be the small area outside the old Delifrance restaurant, if the memory of the place is still fresh in my head. The place has been somewhat converted into a holding area of sorts.


They sent us off whilst dating and celebrating their 3rd year wedding anniversary…


Good to go…

Once inside the holding area and after taking the E-Ventions’ stickers to indicate that we’re part of the travelling group over the apparent three days, we stood at the back to listen to the briefing given by Syah Ibrahim, former RIA and Warna deejay and now the big boss of E-Ventions International & Travel Pte Ltd. Listening to him speak and pulling the legs of some of the fellow participants was a throwback to the heydays when his voice simply pulled in the ratings for whichever station he was at. Once he was done, he handed the microphone over to the RIA deejays to do their own welcoming speeches and what to expect during the trip. There was such a huge number of people at the holding area, I reckoned there were more than two hundred people on the trip. Confirmations later on indicated the total strength was three hundred and thirty pax!!! This was definitely more than I had imagined.


The briefing by Syah Ibrahim

Halfway through the rundown of events to be held on the ship, Syah interrupted the briefing and informed us to be patient as there was quite a chaotic scene on the second floor where the departure gallery was. Apparently there were many unhappy people upstairs who had been waiting as early as 5pm and couldn’t wait onboard to gamble at the casinos. No wonder they say “Money is the root of evil“. We were fortunate in that whilst waiting for our cue to go upstairs, we were entertained by KC and Brader Bo as they bantered and made a lot of funny jokes to make us forget about the waiting. In the process, we also learnt a bit more about both deejays which we probably have not heard of. While I will not specifically say what is its significance, now whenever I see a bird, I will forever be reminded of Brader Bo.


They saved the day with their stand-up comics…

At about 11:15pm we were told to go upstairs via a special route which they had opened up for us. Even though it was still a sizeable queue, we went in without any glitches. It was during the briefing earlier and at the queue that I realised that within our travelling group, there were familiar faces like our secondary school mate’s parents and younger brother, my junior in polytechnic, Erliana and her husband Kamal, who just got married the weekend before last which we attended and a fellow listener, Kak Yati, whom I’ve not met for quite some time. At certain points along the way, we were greeted by the Star Cruises‘ mascots and they had appointed photographers to take a photograph of us with the mascots. Once inside the ship, even though we were supposed to have a very late dinner at the Bella Vista restaurant on the 6th floor, we instead made our way to our rooms to put our luggage inside. Once that was done, we went up to the said restaurant for dinner.


Moving towards the ship…

I was extremely famished as I had gone to the gym earlier in the day, my last meal being about two plus in the afternoon and the dinner was served at midnight. But I did not eat more than I should, bearing in mind I’ve always loved breakfast whenever I go on overseas holidays. When dinner was done, both me and Aida took the time to walk around the ship and explore the facilities. I had actually planned to sing my lungs out at the karaoke rooms but somehow I wasn’t convinced they had enough Malay songs for my liking when I saw the interior settings of the rooms. When we reached the open deck on the 13th floor, there was already a crowd upstairs enjoying the view from the top of the ship and I must say it was a breathtaking view of Singapore‘s south coast.


That’s the HarbourFront on the right of the photograph…

We turned in for the night at around 2am but I still woke up at 4am to catch the live telecast of the English Carling Cup quarter-finals match between Manchester United and Blackburn Rovers. I drifted in and out of sleep whilst watching the game due to my tiredness but when the game was over and I had said my dawn prayers, I suddenly became fresh and looking forward to breakfast even though I tried to force myself to go back to sleep for at least an hour as we had a long day ahead.


The score says it all…

4th December 2008

Breakfast was held at the Mediterranean Buffet & Terrace situated on Deck 12 of the ship. We were one of the early birds and was quite impressed with the spread on offer, even though my personal favourite, scrambled eggs, was not available. One interesting aspect about this cafe is that they have a Kids’ Section, whereby the tables and chairs are much smaller in size as compared to the ones meant for adults. Whilst queueing up for food, the deejays came in to have their breakfast as well. The female deejays were conspicuously wearing shades, perhaps indicating the lack of sleep due to the last minute rehearsals they might have done the night before, for the “RIA Anniversary Show“, which was slated at 9am.


The kids’ section at the Mediterranean… Note the sizes of the tables and chairs…

Once breakfast was done, Aida and I set off to the open deck at Deck 13 for some project that I had planned the night before when we walked around the ship. A good thing that no one was around at that time lest I would have been extremely embarrassed at the unnecessary attention I would have attracted. Cos I had brought a few clothes to change into so as to make my project looked a bit realistic. I’m sure you guys would like to know what project I had in store and was about to experiment on. Well, wait no more and look at the next photograph.


Once that project was done and dusted, we went over to the 7th floor where The Lido was. The Lido is not the cinema that we all know so well but a big auditorium that could fill about a thousand pax. The interior was quite lush and reminded me of a grand theatre like the Esplanade‘s Concert Hall that I recently went to, to watch “An Evening With Anuar Zain“. It was also the venue where cabaret style entertainment and topless shows were being held at night. And why were we there so early in the morning??? Well, it was our first activity of the day, watching the “RIA Anniversary Show“, performed by the deejays for the listeners. Even Syah Ibrahim joined in the fun.



It was a 2-hour show packed with fun and entertainment, with the deejays taking turns to perform songs from the 90s down to current hits and playing games with the audience. Ok granted that the singing at times could be improved on, but credit has to be given to them for making the effort to prepare something for the listeners to enjoy. The games that were played on stage were unforgettable. We had “Pump-the-balloons-with-your-bums“, “Impersonating Your Favourite Deejay” and “Musical Chairs” which were riots. I especially liked the first one as all the five participants had to don on several masks (Osama Bin Laden, George Bush, Scream, Charlie Chaplin and the common Chingay mask) for added humour. I think the whole audience enjoyed themselves judging by the howls and roars of laughter.







But that was not all. Towards the end of the show, forty-one names were called up to the stage, me included. When I was making my way up the stage I had an idea why we were called up, that is, possibly those who celebrate their birthdays in December. However I became sceptical when I saw so many on stage that I wondered if that many people really celebrate their birthdays in December. And I was proven right when the deejays wheeled out a large birthday cake for everyone to join in with the singing of the birthday song, led by none other than Ms Birthday Radi-O herself, Fiza O. The show ended with the deejays singing Matta Band‘s “Ketahuan“. I just wondered why they sang so many Indonesian songs.


The December babies…



Digging the nose of Osama a.k.a. KC… Wonder what his left hand is pointing at…

Once the event was over, we went back to the Mediterranean Buffet & Terrace for lunch and after that, walked around The Gallery area situated on the 8th floor to look at the photographs we had taken with the mascots prior to boarding the ship the previous night. We were quite appalled at the charges they offered. A 5R photograph cost about SGD$10.00, a photo magnet SGD$10.50 and a key chain went at SGD$10.30. Quite a cunning way to make money, we’re being suckered into adding to Star Cruises‘ coffers. We pondered and weighed the options on which ones to take back for memories’ sake but we could not come to a decision yet, so we went back to our rooms to observe our responsibilities and take a short nap before getting off the ship when it reached Port Klang in Selangor Darul Ehsan.


The view at Port Klang


Before disembarking the ship, we had to return to The Lido again where we were divided into six groups. Not all the participants were interested on the land tour that was planned, so there was a reduced number of people at the auditorium. Each group was led by a deejay, some had two in their group. Somehow my gut feeling was our group would be led by KC and I was proven right when we assembled together. The good thing about my group was, the people I knew before this were in the same group, so it was nice to be amongst familiar faces. We were due to board coach number 4 and I remembered exchanging some banter with KC with regards to my nick, which “Cik Mung“, the chipmunk character in his weekly show, had changed to something vulgar and unprintable in this family-oriented blog.


The coach number 4 gang, led by KC

I had actually planned to sleep during the journey to Taman Connought in Cheras, Kuala Lumpur where we were headed for. But with KC onboard, that was definitely impossible as we exchanged ghost stories and he shared some of the stories that he had aired before for the benefit of those in the group who had missed out. Not only that, he took the time to interview a few of us, me included, just to get some feedback and thoughts on the trip that could be included in his “Galaxy” programme to be aired this coming Saturday at 11am. I also took the time to sit next to him and get some mp3 files from his handphone, the trailers associated to his “Misteri Jam 12” programme.


Entertaining us with his stories…

In between the bluetoothing of mp3 files, we shared our experiences on artistes we had met before, especially the hypocrisy that a small minority of them portray away from the public eye and how the “Puasa Yok Yok” song, which he sang with “Cik Mung” during the past Ramadhan, came about. It was a sly dig at a local artiste who was seen not fasting in public. Who that person’s identity is will remain with me. All I hope for is that artiste would realise his / her folly and wisen up. You’re in the public’s radar 24/7 and you’re only jeopardising your career by doing something dumb like that.



The owner herself, Kak Rozie

We reached Restoran Resepi Sang Dewi, situated at Taman Connought, Cheras, Kuala Lumpur around 5pm. This humble restaurant is owned by Kak Rozie, Datin Sri Siti Nurhaliza‘s sister-in-law. The first person I met when I was walking towards the restaurant was Abang Bard. Abang Bard is the Head Public Relations Officer with Suria Records (SRC) and I have known him for almost a decade now from my experiences helping out at SRC events. We exchanged hugs and pleasantries before asking how each other were doing in life. He has two kids now, same as us. It was just extreme pleasure meeting him once again since the last I met him was at the last Anugerah Planet Muzik in Kuala Lumpur. He has a gentle personality and one of the nicest guys I’ve ever known.


Me with Abang Bard

When we reached the restaurant, we were greeted by the artistes who were slated to make an appearance like Saerah, Saida, Indah Ruhaila, Sofaz, Coda and Tomok of New Boyz fame. It was like an open house where the artistes played the hosts. The first person we met was of course Saerah and it was great to meet her again and seeing how slim she was as compared to four years ago when we last met her. Her secret was of course to lay off eating rice. I think I should continue doing that cos the last time I did it for about a month, I think I lost about 3kg, and that too was laying it off during dinnertime. If I were to lay it off totally, who knows, I might lose about 5-6kg.


Saerah with Aida


Aida with Aju

Another person that we longed to meet, Aju, who is Saerah‘s cousin, was nearby grinning away when she saw us. Again when we met, pleasantries were exchanged and we wondered how long it took us all to meet again. It was just the reunion that we had envisaged all along and we were happy to meet the people we had wanted to meet, not forgetting Kak Sabariah, an old friend of ours who had made her way up to Kuala Lumpur earlier in the day to liaise between the Malaysian and Singapore sides as well. Kak Sabariah is the Singapore representative of Suria Records and she’s also in charge of looking after our local group Revalina.


Saerah, Indah Ruhaila & Saida…


Tomok being interviewed by Fiza O. Apparently the group have rebranded themselves and is now known as just “N.B.” Reminds me of a famous Hokkien expletive… 😛

Kak Rozie, the owner of the restaurant took the time to mingle with everyone and thanking us all for coming over to her humble restaurant and I must say the food served was simply appetizing. A pity I was still full from lunch and dinner was just a few hours away, that a second helping was simply impossible for my stomach to take in. Kak Rozie still remembers yours truly, she still does, cos I used to be a familiar face at the airport to send her sister-in-law off in the past.


Zimi & Are-meer of Sofaz


Coda came without their drummer…

The event was also meant to promote and introduce the artistes to the listeners, save for Sofaz and Tomok, the rest are relatively new in the entertainment industry. We had a quiz session whereby after the introductions were made on each individual artiste, we had to answer some questions and win for ourselves some goodies courtesy of Siti Nurhaliza Productions (SNP). I answered one question with regards to Coda and got myself a goody bag containing “CTea“, the other famous product of SNP other than its owner’s award winning albums. We then had another birthday cake cutting session with the deejays and artistes before the artistes themselves took turns to perform their latest singles. It was quite a happening event so to speak.


The birthday cake to RIA, courtesy of SRC


We spent the remainder of the time chatting with Aju and Saerah, just catching up on life. Soon it was time to go and we said our goodbyes to the people we knew. Kak Rozie invited us over to the restaurant again whenever we are in the Kuala Lumpur vicinity and of course, God willing, we would like to return again someday. But first I have to learn how to negotiate my way there all over again cos Cheras is not like Kuala Lumpur City Centre itself, where it’s a big circle that would lead you back to where you originally start off no matter where you go.


Before boarding the coach, some of us visited the A&W restaurant nearby for a quick fix of something that we had not had for a long time back here in Singapore, the Curly Fries and the Root Beer Float. Even the deejays joined in as well. Brader Bo and I took the time to reminisce the good old days of A&W in Singapore and how badly it turned out for the owners in the end, especially when all the other fast food outlets were reinventing themselves every few months. I’d like to say thank you once again to the newly married couple Kamal & Erliana for sparing us some loose change as there was no money changer outlet in the building.

On the way back to Port Klang, we had a change of deejays in the coach. KC was no longer with us. Instead, Syah Ibrahim and Aura Shai took over. Syah as always, was in his element, pulling the legs of the aunties and there was one particular aunty whose laughter was so infectious that the whole coach imitated her. That aunty was very adorable, a pity she suffered a fall at the ship and had to have one of her arms bandaged. When Shai took over the microphone, she promoted something which was music to my ears. You see, RIA 89.7FM is now on the hunt for a part-time deejay and they were on the lookout for possible candidates during the trip.


Syah addressing us in the coach…

Since I was the most prominent participant in the coach, Shai asked if I was interested, I instinctively said “In the past…” Actually to tell you the truth, I am still interested in the job, it was my first love and dream to be a producer-presenter all those years ago and God knows how shattered I was when I did not get past the first round due to having a sore throat on the day of my auditions, the same one which saw Fiza O and Azmi Sempoi joining the station. But the position currently being offered is a part-time one, something that is not to my fancy due to work restrictions on moonlighting as well as the fact that part-time deejays normally have to work during Hari Raya. The full time deejays normally do not work on both Hari Rayas and I’m the kind who would prefer to spend those two special days with family, especially now that I have kids. Till now, I still lament to my wife how I wished the position being offered was a full time one. I would crawl to Caldecott Broadcast Centre just to land the job. But for now, I’m just happy being a listener.

Out of entertainment’s sake, Shai called me forward to showcase my talents. Before me there was another guy, Fathulah, who had showcased his. Fathulah is a familiar face, having had experiences as a host on one of those Screenbox productions, which I have forgotten. He had also attended the Radio Academy last year. Yours truly attended in 2000 but over the years I think quite a few things have changed with the advent of the sms system and a few other new technology integrated into the working environment of the station. When I made my way to the front of the coach, Shai gave me a warm introduction to the others.

She said that I’m quite the prominent blogger. Adding on, she said that my comments can be sharp, but they also make sense and jokingly she said, but sometimes can be nonsensical as well, which I agree judging by the wisecracks I sometimes send via the sms system. Shai threw me a challenge to speak about Anuar Zain, but I was more at ease talking about Datin Sri, so I did, for about a minute or so, the time slated for me to do it. I dunno if I did well or not cos there were some errrms and ahhhs coming out from my mouth, definitely not what they were looking for, but come to think about it, some deejays I know started off like that and had to write scripts when they first went on air. Some people have the flair for writing, but when it comes to giving a speech, there might be some problems. I need lots of speech training if I were ever to make it as a producer-presenter. That’s why I think I don’t quite fancy giving presentations.


Stunning view…

We reached back the Superstar Virgo at about 7:30pm and after putting some of our stuff back, we headed for the Mediterranean again for dinner. There was a huge crowd but we managed to find a place for ourselves. I pressured Aida into having her dinner quickly as I was very sleepy and cannot afford to enjoy “Misteri Jam 12” later on at midnight with droopy eyes due to a lack of sleep. The moment we reached back to our room at 9pm, I was off to slumberland within fifteen minutes. I set the time to wake up at 11:10pm but when I woke up at the slated time, I went back to sleep again only to wake up twenty minutes later. Even then, my eyes just refused to open and the body was calling out for me to just sleep on. After a good shower, I was fresh enough to go through the night even if the eyes were feeling itchy and the sleepiness still had not gone away.



The event that everyone had been waiting for was held at The Taverna, an open deck cafe situated at Deck 13. Supper was being served and it kinda woke me up from the groggy feeling I was experiencing. I ate the samosas to kill time and it was a drag waiting for the event to start, as technical glitches prevented the deejays from starting it as planned. In the end, what was planned to start at midnight, ended up starting at 1am. The deejays had disappeared prior to making a grand entrance wearing scary masks and they were joined by Kamal and Erliana who were dressed up as the extra “beings”. Instead of feeling scared, we were left laughing at the sight. Perhaps it was a way to diffuse the tension being felt as they had warned us beforehand that what we were about to experience would not be felt when we listen to the programme on a nightly basis.


The deejays making their grand entrance…


One for the cameras, can you guess who they are???

And how true it was!!! Brader Bo and RZ shared their personal experiences which for exclusivity sake I would not relate here. About two or three participants also came forward to share their personal experiences. I had actually planned to relate what my friends at had experienced when they ventured the old Bidadari Christian cemetery in 2001, but I thought it was best that the rest relate their personal experiences first and for the audio clip that they had planned to air to take precedence. When no one else came forward, they aired the clip, which was a live recording of a lady being possessed by a being that was sent by her neighbour who was smittened with her and wanted to separate her from her husband.


The audio clip was as real as one could get. We heard different voices coming from the lady who was possessed and everyone looked tensed listening to them. Some of the ladies in the audience and even the female deejays were seen covering their ears. My heart was pounding hard just listening to it and when it was all over, the programme ended as the general feeling was the rest were already too scared to continue listening further. Besides, we still had breakfast, a futsal and karaoke session planned in the morning, maybe that was why the show had to end off early.


The newly married couple all glammed up as the extra “beings”…

Somehow I felt it was an anti-climatic ending and too short since it started late and ended at about 1:50am. I had been looking forward to KC sharing his experiences at the conty since I always hear a ghostly shriek every fortnight or so whenever he ends his programme. He had planned to share with the audience but I think he had forgotten about it accidentally and there went my chance to share my experiences with the audience as I had procrastinated all night long when to go forward to share. To tell you the truth, why I procrastinated was because, being the most prominent listener on the trip, I did not want to make it look as though I was crazy for the microphone and glamour time. Oh well, maybe I could relate it the next time I go on air during “Misteri Jam 12“.


Yours truly getting in on the act…

We did not go back to our room straightaway. We walked around the ship and went back to The Gallery on the 8th floor to decide which photographs and mementos we would purchase the following day, along with Kamal and Erliana. It was only at 3am that we managed to call it a day, even then it took us about twenty minutes or so to sleep. Believe it or not, we spent those minutes watching Hannah Montana on television as it was the only interesting to watch at that time.


The ship leaving a trail in its wake…


The beautiful sunrise…

5th December 2008

I woke up at 6:30am with a massive headache and a stiff neck as I had woke up on the wrong side of bed. Fortunately I brought my painkillers with me, and I popped them just before we left the room for breakfast at about 7:30am. Funnily enough, the Mediterranean and Bella Vista restaurants that we were allowed to go only opened at 8am. So we spent the time walking round the ship and taking some last-minute photos of ourselves. I was not keen to have breakfast as the futsal session was due at 9am. I simply abhor eating less than two hours before I’m due for a workout. But I had to have something and the scrambled eggs were appetizers for me over at the Mediterranean. I did not eat as much as I would have loved to but at least I was satisfied I’ve had my fill. We then returned to our room to change into my gear.


Killing some time whilst waiting to have breakfast…

When we reached the basketball court on Deck 13, RZ & Hassan Salleh, RIA‘s programme director, were already waiting for people to arrive and join in. The court was covered with nettings, resembling a cage. Soon we had enough to create two teams of three each. Naturally my team was made up of the Manchester United fans in RZ and Hanafiah, the winner of the “Impersonate Your Favourite Deejay” the previous day. Our team prevailed throughout and we only left the court because more people had come to join in and let them have the opportunity to play. We were unbeaten so to speak as we had the perfect combination of skills (Hanafiah), guile (RZ) and steel (me). My job was to destroy the opponents’ attacks and distribute to the other two to finish off the job and we did it with such finesse that the rest had no answer facing up to us, and I’m not blowing my own trumpet. It was a fact witnessed by many.


We had a juggling session before we started the game proper…


The session was also filled with fun and laughter as we poked fun at each other’s antics on the court. Later on, Brader Bo came to join us and he played in my team as we moved around, changing teams. The laughter reached its peak when Brader Bo accidentally kicked the ball and it went through a hole by the side of the nettings, resulting it to fly off the ship and into the waters. Everyone stopped to look out by the side and RZ lamented at how his son’s football was gone. It was an ammunition to use against him as the ball had the Manchester United crest on it and he being a staunch United fan had his nose rubbed by Hassan, an Arsenal fan. I’m sure this would be one of the highlights of this trip and one we would remember in time to come.



Discussing tactics with RZ

We ended our session at about 10:30am and made our way to the “Galaxy of the Stars“, a pub where the karaoke session was being held. Yours truly was having a hard time picking a suitable song to sing when KC came along and chose the song for me, an extremely challenging one for the vocal chords, especially when I was already tired from the futsal session. He picked Glenn Fredly‘s “Januari” and I told him he had better sing it with me as I could not sing it by myself. And so he did, which was a great help and it was an honour to sing a duet with him cos I feel that he has a good voice himself. Naturally my voice cracked during the first chorus due to my tiredness, but it actually went well then after. I thought of singing another duet with him, 2D‘s “Kerna Delylah“, but time was not on my side.


The audience…


Fiza O smiles for the camera, while Syah does his best Mas Idayu impression…

After singing, Aida said that she was unable to record a video recording of my performance from my camera phone. Upon checking, I realised that all the video clips that I had recorded throughout the trip were all gone, which was a complete waste as I had taken clips of Saerah and Indah Ruhaila singing the previous day, amongst others. I think something must be wrong with the memory card and to think I had bought it just a few days before the trip!!! It was simply a complete waste. If any of you out there who had gone on the trip and had recorded my duet with KC, please get in touch with me as I so would like to look at it again. Many thanks in advance!!!




The karaoke session ended around 11:15am and there was still a matter of settling the outstanding bills before we could get our passports back. There was a long queue at The Lido, where Singaporeans were supposed to collect their passports. One of our fellow participants had complained that he had been waiting close to an hour. Upon hearing that, I decided to do it later and returned to our room to pack our luggage bag, but not before we went back to The Gallery to purchase our photographs and mementos, as well as a quick visit to the Duty Free shop to buy souvenirs for family members and colleagues.


Outside the duty free shop…

The wife had wanted to have lunch first before doing the rest but I told her I was still full and that I hate to eat when there were still outstanding stuff to be done. At least when the bags have been packed, we could eat at ease. And so we only went out to have lunch at about 1pm. By then we could see that Singapore was just a distance away, the south coast and the all too familiar buildings in the Central Business District greeting us literally so to speak. It was nice to have lunch facing Sentosa Island and we could see how beautiful the island is, even if a large part of the island facing HarbourFront is under construction for the upcoming integrated resort.


Singapore beckoning in the background… Spot the buildings in the Central Business District

Once we’ve had our fill, we went down to the 7th floor again where the main lobby was to settle the outstanding bills and collected our passports. It was quite a chaotic scene with so many people doing last minute settling of bills. I reckoned we waited about half an hour before we got our turn. At 2:05pm, we returned back to the room to collect our luggage and went back to the “Galaxy of the Stars” where we were supposed to converge one last time and disembark from the ship from then on. Due to the massive jam at the Immigrations‘ side, we purposedly stayed back awhile longer to take last minute photos and I didn’t wait to take another set of clone photos, much to KC‘s amusement as he was seated nearby and watching my antics.


We were the last to leave along with the deejays since we had informed cousin Ezaad that we’ll only appear at the Arrival Hall around 3:15pm. Whilst taking the slow walk and queueing up, RZ stood behind us and gathered some feedback from us with regards to the trip. He acknowledged that certain things could have been better, especially the “Misteri Jam 12” programme, but from my observations and coinciding with his, certain things were out of their hands and solely lie at the fault of Star Cruises who had initially said certain things could be done but they could not live up to it came the day. The dimming of lights during the “Misteri Jam 12” programme for instance was unable to be done because the lights were controlled by the captain’s control room and not by the open deck cafe where the event was held. Once customs were cleared, we all said our goodbyes and thanks for the support and memories.


Fort Siloso greeted our return…

Personally I felt that without the activities planned for us, the trip would have been a bit of a bore cos basically the facilities are normally what you would find at plush resorts and hotels, just that the difference is that this is onboard a cruise ship. Granted I did not get to use the gym facilities, plunged into the pool, nor immersed myself in the jacuzzi as time was so limited and we had so many things to do at such a short space of time. Coupled with the fact that we were shortchanged by Star Cruises, I think they need to change the policy and make it an afternoon embarkation next time so we would get our money’s worth, not to mention time as well. Oh and not forgetting the price for children should be lessened and not made to be paid the same price as adults if they have reached two years of age.


HarbourFront beckons…

As for the treatment given by E-Ventions International & Travel, I must say it was first class treatment by Syah Ibrahim and his team of staff. They were always willing to lend a helping hand and listen to our whims and nuances. I would not hesitate to recommend you people out there to choose them as your travel agents or follow them on their future overseas trips. They really look after you and Syah as a guide is the best there is. He makes you feel extremely at home and at ease. Even if they might have jacked up the price of the trip in the process, and this is just a hypothetical wonder being posed, I would not mind paying slightly more for that service with a smile.


Finally I would like to thank RIA 89.7FM for organising such a trip for the listeners. Maybe they could organise this another time but definitely not onboard a cruise ship as it’s quite expensive, I think even a short retreat at any of our local resorts would have been fun. I would also like to thank wifey for this trip as it is an advanced birthday gift from her to me and not forgetting, my cousin Ezaad and wife Julie for sending us off and fetching us home on the day we returned. Here’s wishing one and all Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha. May this blessed day bring more blessings and sustenance into your lives and I hope you have enjoyed reading this record-breaking entry in Da’ KRUsader Manor‘s history…


One last shot…

Happy 2nd Birthday Syahindah Darling!!!

It felt like yesterday I first held you in my arms, embracing the fact that I’ve just become a father for the first time…


The first 12 months I watched you grow right in front of my eyes and was amazed by how much you progressed from a cute tiny little thing to learning to walk when you were just eleven months old…







Another 12 months have passed and day by day, you have never failed to surprise us with your antics, your singing and your fast grasp of speaking in both English and Malay







And today, you turn 2, with all our hopes and prayers that you’ll grow into an intelligent young lady and be a source of success and inspiration for family, community, religion and society. Happy 2nd birthday darling. We love you very much!!!



This last photo was taken exactly at 12 midnight awhile ago when her cousins came into the room to surprise her with this beautiful gift… 🙂